Monday, December 16, 2013

Extravagant Love, John 3:16, 12/15/2013


Sermon 12-15-13  Christmas Extravagant love   john 3:16 kjh

16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life John 3:16.

INTRO

I already don’t like this sermon.  Its Christmas time and you have not used a Christmas scripture.  Where is mary and joseph, and the baby?

Yes churches have used john 3:16 as the consummate scripture on salvation. 

We have even made a formula with it. 

But listen to this.  God so loved the world, that he gave his only son.  God loved the world, he gave his son.  God loved the world, he gave his son!  God loved the world, he gave his son!

If that isn’t Christmas, I don’t know what is

 In fact, we get confused about Christmas.  Its about Jesus, who came to die

Here is the latest episode of jesus vs santa…………                 VIDEO

When we love people we give them things.  Hugs.  Kisses.  Time.  Our commitment.  A dvd.  A tie.  Cologne. We Spend time with them.

Sometimes the occasion matches the size of the gift

Not always-

But sometimes, there is a gift that fits the occasion

An engagement ring

Dec 31, 1999
                       

And so at Christmas God has show his love for us

By giving us a gift.  The gift of his son

This is amazing, extravagant love.

 
This is the message of Christmas. 

Amazing love. Unbelievable love.  Sacrificial love

Rejection – we all know it – that is why we hope to be loved

Country song – “Check Yes or No” – George Strait
 
"Do you love me, do you wanna be my friend?
And if you do
Well then don't be afraid to take me by the hand
If you want to
I think this is how love goes, check yes or no"
 
everyone wants to know that they are important to someone
 
We create emotional layers and defense mechanisms to protect us from rejection

Adam & Eve hide in the garden – if they really knew me, they would reject me


Christmas is different – God is coming to be with us – He knows our limits, our faults, yet he comes
 
The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light

Not the good people. Not the ones walking in the light

The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light

 FROM THE BEGINNING WE WERE LOVED

God made us in his image.  He looked at creation and said it was good

Yes we are part of a great love story and Christmas is a turning point.

In Jesus God says, no matter what you do- I will show my love for you.

John 3:16

16 For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

 What makes this a powerful moment in our story is the nature of the love being shared with us.

 Jesus represents the extravagance of God’s love. 

                Nothing is held back from or for us.

                Remember the woman washing Jesus’ feet – luke 7

Not only is God’s love extravagant, it is sacrificial.

                What we are unable to do for ourselves, God offers on our behalf.

                Remember Abraham and Isaac.

                Jesus given for us
     

STORIES

I hope you have a love story in your life.

All of us at least know of love stories

There is an amazing love story in the bible

Hosea and gomer- god told him to take a wife to himself that was…!

He buys her back

Hosea goes to find Gomer – yes we have gone astray, but God is out looking for us

Hosea story is beyond our understanding

God loves us enough to enter our world


that reminds me of - famous story by Paul Harvey
the man and the birds

 
The man to whom I’m going to introduce you was not a scrooge, he was a kind decent, mostly good man. Generous to his family, upright in his dealings with other men. But he just didn’t believe all that incarnation stuff which the churches proclaim at Christmas Time. It just didn’t make sense and he was too honest to pretend otherwise. He just couldn’t swallow the Jesus Story, about God coming to Earth as a man.

 “I’m truly sorry to distress you,” he told his wife, “but I’m not going with you to church this Christmas Eve.” He said he’d feel like a hypocrite. That he’d much rather just stay at home, but that he would wait up for them. And so he stayed and they went to the midnight service.

Shortly after the family drove away in the car, snow began to fall. He went to the window to watch the flurries getting heavier and heavier and then went back to his fireside chair and began to read his newspaper. Minutes later he was startled by a thudding sound…Then another, and then another. Sort of a thump or a thud…At first he thought someone must be throwing snowballs against his living room window. But when he went to the front door to investigate he found a flock of birds huddled miserably in the snow. They’d been caught in the storm and, in a desperate search for shelter, had tried to fly through his large landscape window.

Well, he couldn’t let the poor creatures lie there and freeze, so he remembered the barn where his children stabled their pony. That would provide a warm shelter, if he could direct the birds to it.

Quickly he put on a coat, galoshes, tramped through the deepening snow to the barn. He opened the doors wide and turned on a light, but the birds did not come in. He figured food would entice them in. So he hurried back to the house, fetched bread crumbs, sprinkled them on the snow, making a trail to the yellow-lighted wide open doorway of the stable. But to his dismay, the birds ignored the bread crumbs, and continued to flap around helplessly in the snow. He tried catching them…He tried shooing them into the barn by walking around them waving his arms…Instead, they scattered in every direction, except into the warm, lighted barn.

And then, he realized that they were afraid of him. To them, he reasoned, I am a strange and terrifying creature. If only I could think of some way to let them know that they can trust me…That I am not trying to hurt them, but to help them. But how? Because any move he made tended to frighten them, confuse them. They just would not follow. They would not be led or shooed because they feared him.

“If only I could be a bird,” he thought to himself, “and mingle with them and speak their language. Then I could tell them not to be afraid. Then I could show them the way to safe, warm…to the safe warm barn. But I would have to be one of them so they could see, and hear and understand.”

At that moment the church bells began to ring. The sound reached his ears above the sounds of the wind. And he stood there listening to the bells – Adeste Fidelis – o come all ye faithful – listening to the bells pealing the glad tidings of Christmas.

And he sank to his knees in the snow.

Christmas is a love STORY

It is the greatest  love story ever told

But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us Romans 5:8

Here’s the story-

A man loaned his son to us for 33 years.  We borrowed him, abused him and At the end of that time, we killed him and returned him to his father.

What kind of a father allows this?

God so loved the world.

 Do you know THAT YOU ARE LOVED BY GOD

Here we are again talking about god loves the world

But do you know that god loves you?

Do you know that you were worth the sacrifice?

CONCLUSION

There were two soldiers, Joe and Carl, who were close friends. It was war time and their platoon was engaged in an fierce firefight. Outnumbered, they started to suffer heavy casualties, their commander ordered a retreat.

 When the company got to safe ground, Joe noticed his friend, Carl, was not with them. He went to the commander and asked permission to go back to look for Carl. The commander disapproved, saying that under heavy fire of the enemy, Carl would surely have already been killed. He told Joe they would recover the bodies when it was safer to do so.

Joe apologized before he disobeyed the order and ran back to the battlefield. Minutes later he came back carrying Carl’s dead body. As he put down Carl’s body, the commander  saw that Joe himself was mortally wounded now. The commander furiously told Joe, “I told you not to go. You foolishly endangered yourself, and now I risk losing another man. What a waste, Joe!”

 Joe, now fighting for his own life, calmly told the commander, “Sir, it was not a waste. When I got to Carl he was still alive. I held him up and propped him on my lap telling him to hold on. He gasped for breath, he smiled, and his last and only words were, ‘Joe, I knew you would come.’” “I knew you would come.”

These simple words convey the meaning of one of the deepest graces of our faith and our hope. We know God will always be there for us.

So again we are presented with the invitation to return God’s love. 

To respond to God’s overtures.  To choose him

Today you are invited to say yes to God.  To check yes.

To be being swept up in his amazing transformational love

 Do you know this love?

 Christmas is a reminder that God came for us. 

In our worst moment, when we needed him the most.  God did not hold back.

But we knew he would come.  He is just that kind of a god.

Jesus - Immanuel – god with us

 

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