Showing posts with label Sacrifice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Sacrifice. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Rethink: Rethink Your Giving, 10/19/14

1 tim 6:2b-10, 17-19
These are the things you are to teach and insist on. 3 If anyone teaches otherwise and does not agree to the sound instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ and to godly teaching, 4 they are conceited and understand nothing. They have an unhealthy interest in controversies and quarrels about words that result in envy, strife, malicious talk, evil suspicions 5 and constant friction between people of corrupt mind, who have been robbed of the truth and who think that godliness is a means to financial gain.
6 But godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. 8 But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. 9 Those who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs……
17 Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. 18 Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share. 19 In this way they will lay up treasure for themselves as a firm foundation for the coming age, so that they may take hold of the life that is truly life.

Sermon     10-26-03    1 tim 6:17-19

Run for it…annual sermon on giving
Lock the doors…..
Visitors, the good news is
Great day to be a visitor- give u a glimpse into the character of wcc
Do you want to know about our church culture? 
This is the day to be in worship.  Do you want to know what our members do?  This is the day to be in worship.

Although I call this the annual sermon on giving
I hope you hear these themes the rest of the year.
Sacrifice, living the generous life, living outside of one’s self

In a 2005 sutdy, George Barna reached the following conclusions
·        Some do not give because they are selfish……..ouch!
·        Some don’t give because they don’t realize that the church needs their gifts to be effective
·        Some don’t understand that God invites us to live outside of ourselves.
·        Some don’t see a return on the investment
In other words, Some do not give to the church because the church has not explained that their giving will make a difference in the world

How we spend our money says everything about what we believe in
Paul told timothy that when we get our living and giving in proper perspective, we find the life that truly is life.

When we join the umc, we are asked two questions……..
Do you profess Jesus Christ as lord and savior and will you be loyal to the umc Prayers, presence, gifts, service and witness, they are all important.

How should we give?

giving to God should be
1.   first [first fruits ex 22]
a.   it is the first commitment that you keep
b.   the first check that you write
2.   regular
a.   responsibility of ministry is regular
b.   support of God to you is regular
c.   if you are out of town
d.   if you are sick
e.   eft is so helpful
3.   proportional
a.   ever figured your giving as a percentage?
b.   Rockefeller, never would have tithed my first million if I had not tithed on my first salary of 1.50 per week
c.   10% tithing….2 guys on an island – 1% give 2
d.   if you get a raise
4.   we should give cheerfully –

We give to what we love
People are excited about the royals!
when you know what goes on here, I think we do find a cheerful heart.

This is your church.
It is not the preachers church, it does not belong to the bishop or to the staff.
The strength of this body and the future of this body is measured by the steps that are taken by you, the members.  This is your church.

You have many choices about where to give & even where to attend
Today I want to tell you a few stories aobut this place

Hillcrest knows we are the church that willing to do the hard work.  They interview the residents before moving them into an apartment, as certain criteria have to be met.  Sometimes the Woods Chapel apartments get the residents that are more ‘at risk’.  Why?  Because they know we are flexible, we know that helping a former homeless person isn’t easy work, we know that it might require more effort on our end, and we are okay with that. 

The Cancer Ministry and how they help, how they’ve basically ‘adopted’ the Cancer Center
Sherri swanson

How our Adoption group reaches out to families,
One of the people involved in this ministry  was adopted as a child
I love how your hearts go out in ministry to others

Speaking of hearts going out - those we have sent

Ronald McDonald house story of the family from Princeton that was served a meal by WCC at Children’s Mercy

Mobile camp

Emergency relief

Jamaica – dental mission trip

CREW, habitat, roof in van buren

Children that receive backsnack packs.  Russian orphans that so look forward to that week when their friend sfrom wcc visit.
Thank you notes in the wire
I was hungry and you fed me

Los pinos housing

I asked a few folks, why they support the church

We give because WCC encourages us to dream dreams and have visions.  We give because it is a place of welcome and celebration. 

I was away last week on business.  When I got home yesterday, my six year old said, “Mommy, you are my favorite human in the world.  But I love God, Jesus and the Holy Ghost more.”  Her love of God is part of who she is.  It’s part of who she is because of WCC and the Children’s Ministry.  That is part of why we give.

The kids are incredibly thoughtful and generous about giving to others. They collect items at their birthdays in lieu of gifts to donate to various causes.  Our daughter had us go to the bank this month to get money out of her account for the American Heart Association because there were people with bad hearts who needed help more than she needed to save for something personal.  The missions that are modeled at church carry over into a generous heart that reaches beyond the church.  That is part of why we give.

We see that the “whole” of all that WCC does directly influences how we and our children interact with the world.  I love the contagious effect of being around those who give of their time, treasure and talent.  But the treasure keeps the car fueled so that we can keep visiting new destinations giving time and talent.  That is part of why we give.

We have chosen Woods Chapel as our church home for many reasons.  The programs for children and youth are amazing and provide a way for our children to connect with other youth in a supportive environment and to learn how love of God and service to others can fit in their lives. The church's varied mission activities provide a way that everyone can find a way to serve.  They have such a great impact on others locally and across the globe.  There are so many activities and groups at the church that, even though the church is large, you can find a small group that fits you.  Finally, the people at Woods Chapel are great -- very welcoming and caring for others.  We are proud to be members of Woods Chapel and proud of the impact the church makes. 
 Holly McCoy

First, we have formed several friendships that would be lost without… When we are down, our friends/family from WC are there to pick us up.
When we are happy, we want to be with our friends at WC.
When we want to help, we think of how many missions there are through WC.
When we want to ignore WC…. The sermons, our friends/family… just creep into our thoughts and remind us not to!
Basically, our lives revolve around our church, family/friends, oh… and work…
Then we spoke about the overwhelming desire to want to give again… we would give the shirts off our backs…
We want to feed our children.
Some of these are things that we get through WC, some are what we can also do for WC.
Not because we are supposed to, but because we want to.
Maybe just one thing we can do can help someone else feed their family – Food food, spirituality, and Love…

WCC is an anchor in my life. The people, missions, programs, leadership, sermons and support fill my life with meaning and significance. I feel refreshed and renewed each time I leave WCC. I'm staying "connected to Jesus" through WCC!
I'm part of the "old guard" who remembers WCC when it was a little church; and we all knew each other by name.  Rather than waxing nostalgic, however, I celebrate WCC as the "big church" that it has become -- because of the depth of our membership now, we're able to sponsor two Hillcrest apartments plus hold an annual Prom Boutique requiring over 180 volunteers and offering over 3000 dresses.  Not to mention the many other ongoing mission efforts The "footprint" of WCC is truly large and global –and this is cause for rejoicing!
Commitment Card
Step chart
Please take a look at the step chart.  Find where you are.  Don’t worry about those who are giving nothing.  Everyone was there at one time or another.  I am not upset by the number of folks there, these are our opportunities to grow and help folks grow in generosity. 

Pledge card
Please take home the pledge card attached to your bulletin and prayerfully consider what you would like to do in 2013. And then bring your pledge back to church the next Sunday or two and place in the offering plate.

1.   Your gifts help us plan for effective ministry- so the budget team can prepare
2.   Your electronic gifts help keep your church stable during the summer
3.   Your gifts are doing much good for the sake of Christ.

Conclusion
Take a deep breath

Do your gifts produce significant outcomes- is your church making a difference in the world?

If you are visiting today, I simply ask you if this sounds like a place that you want to be a part of?  We welcome you!
Coming together as a group, we are able to accomplish great things for Christ.

Today I want to say thank you….
·        Thank you, my friends, for the great love and grace you show in connecting people to Christ.
·        Thank you in advance for your generous support of the ministries of woods chapel.
·        Thanks for wanting to be a part of God’s work, something that is bigger than we are
·        Thank you for grasping your life and putting things in proper perspective
·        Thank you for pursuing the life that truly is life.

Prayer
Finally, one person wrote in
the biggest reason I support my church-
Grace.  Our church is a church of grace.  Too many churches are known for what they are against- but we are a church that is known for what we are FOR.  Grace.  Grace to one another, grace to those less fortunate, grace to those who are suffering, grace to those all over this world.

We don’t ask if those we are helping deserve to be helped… we already know the answer to that question.  Of course they are- they are children of God, and just as he’s shown US grace- we will extend that grace through love, justice, and serving- to others.
Grace, alone. Period.


Wednesday, May 8, 2013

Inquiring Minds - Romans 12:1-2 5-4-13



Sermon 5-4-13 inquiring minds – questions about life death and everything in between

Romans 12:1-2     A Living Sacrifice
12 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

How I heard this as a youth
How the bishop explains it…..that our minds would be opened, renewed, paradigm shift
Don’t have to check your brain at the door.
Invitation to live in the now, many questions about eternity, live in the now.

should I feel guilty about having so much in a world where so many have so little.
Not guilty, but responsible
Rich man and lazarus luke 16
Parable of the talents mt 25 -  5,2,1 talent or bag of gold

Why do bad things
If God is perfect, why/how did He create a world with so many imperfections? Shouldn't a perfect being be able to create perfect things?

Why do bad things happen to good people?  Someone described a colleague as an evangelical atheist, who uses bad things happening to good people as why God does not exist.  

Why did Job have to suffer so much.

Harold Kushner’s book when bad things happen to good people

·         job 13:15 15 Though he slay me, yet will I hope in him; I will surely[a] defend my ways to his face.

·        Demello story
·         mt 5:45 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[i] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.

·        It’s the best of all worlds….we love and our choice matters

Praying for the dead
Give thanks for the dead
Pray for the living

Time in the old testament
I'm often puzzled with the measurement of "time" in the Bible and current "time"---Did Sarah really get pregnant when she was 90?? Is that our years? People in Genesis before Noah "lived for hundreds of years", Adam was 900+, Noah was 900+, Abraham 175?? How do I explain the concepts of time and age

Death dying heaven eternal life
I am dealing with frail, elderly parents right now, say something about dying, death and eternal life.

will  I continue to be tempted in heaven – and if so, does that entail a perpetual state of being forgiven?  it’s very difficult for me envision ever becoming “perfect.”  It’s just hard for me to imagine all these less-than-Christian thoughts being completely erased from my hard drive…so I ask….will I know longer be tempted in heaven?

To cross over is a great mystery.
From which on one ever comes back to discuss with us.
Spiritual existence.  We will be like the angels
Well done good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of the Lord- MT 25

6. What will Heaven be like?
(Will we have physical bodies? what will we do?) will there be golden streets

we will live in the real spirit, in the presence of God. The thought of this and the understanding of this is beyond our comprehension.

1Corinthians 2:9 "No eye has ever seen, nor ear heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him".

Revelation 21:4
4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’[a] or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

Does the Bible say anything about ages in heaven?  If a child dies on earth, do they stay a child in heaven?  Always wondered about this and if the Bible addresses it at all. 

5. Do dogs go to Heaven?
Isaiah 11:6 The wolf will live with the lamb, the leopard will lie down with the goat,
the calf and the lion and the yearling[
a] together; and a little child will lead them.

Why does the Bible, specifically the New Testament, seem to suggest that when we die, physically as a believer, we will not get to be in heaven with Jesus until he makes His second coming?  1 Cor. 15:1-58 and 1 Thess. 4:15-17.  My understanding is that when a Christian passes away, their spirit instantly enters heaven and their shell of a body stays behind. 

To be absent from the body is to be present with the lord 2 cor 5:8

4. What would be the point of this life if what we learned here had not value in the spiritual after life?

I do think that we grow and change in this life. When we arrive in heaven, it should feel like home. [the renewing of the mind]

2 Corinthians 3:18 And we, who with unveiled faces all reflect the Lord's glory, are being transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit.

Maybe there are different levels….different  things that happen to us depending on how we lived this life....

2 Corninthians 12:2 I know a man in Christ who fourteen years ago was caught up to the third heaven. Whether it was in the body or out of the body O do not know - God knows.

Of course there is purpose to our learning, growing and living here.

Jews in heaven?
I know some awesome Jews.  They do not believe Jesus was the Messiah.  It’s not that they need to be educated.  They have been informed and choose to believe differently.  Yet these are good people who believe in God and do good things for their fellow man. I have a hard time believing that a loving and graceful God would turn His back on them.

Mat 8:11 11 I say to you that many will come from the east and the west, and will take their places at the feast with Abraham, Isaac and Jacob in the kingdom of heaven.
Luk 13:28
Why did Jesus say on the cross, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?"
Bearing our sin
Quoting psalm 22

Mystery of God
My historic sense of self says there was a man named Jesus who claimed to be the son of God, performed miracles, was crucified and rose from the dead.  It's documented and I believe it; however, my scientific sense asks about God.  We are but small insignificant specks on a very small planet in a huge universe. 
At any given time thousands of people pray to God and He hears -- How? 

Through the years various Bible studies have expressed that when we pray the Holy Spirit groans for us and God hears.  If that's so, how does He make sense of all the groaning?  I think part of my problem is that I envision God as a giant of a man (way out in space somewhere.

Sometimes I feel very "in tune" while other times I feel very adrift.  Just because I think I'm following God's will for me, doesn't always mean I am.  I've misread so many signs and nudges throughout my lifetime, and it makes me sad. 
How can some people have such strong convictions about God all the time?
   I wish I could quit questioning and just go with it, but I can't. 
Should I have myself committed? :-)

Welcome to the human race
Some folks want a church where every question is answered. 
I tend to believe if you are around someone that knows it all, run as fast as you can
In my faith we have some answers and some handles
And we get to lean on the mystery of God
…..let us all lean into the mystery of God

9. Are we all smeared (sinners by nature) or does God love all of us unconditionally?
Both.
for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by His grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. Romans 3:23-24
Sin is about selfishness. This just means that we are all selfish by nature. Babies come out totally self-consumed. It is the human way.

For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him. John 3:16-17

6. What does it mean to live a holy life in this world?
but now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves to God, the benefit you reap leads to holiness, and the result is eternal life. Romans6:22

To have in your heart a passion, a desire to serve God and his people
It is a gift from God, you do not earn it. By the sacrifice of Jesus, our hearts are changed.

Not perfect, but growing in our desire for God.
Less of me, more of him

8. What do you do when your dreams for your life and your job don't come true?
Are our expectations too high?

5Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. 6in all you ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. 7Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the LORD and shun evil. Proverbs3:5-7

conclusion
. I have been hurt by others in Bible studies who do not respect my opinion. When reading and interpreting the Bible, do I accept what the majority believe or do I trust my own opinion?

There is a blessing in the wisdom of others...
tradition holds the opinion of Wesley and Luther. Consider their thoughts.

the problem is that others hurt you.
Open your heart and mind to new perspectives………
May our minds be constantly renewed

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Being Un-Spiritual 7-7-96 Philippians 2:1-5

Being Un-Spiritual 7-7-96 Philippians 2:1-5

In scripture, Paul encourages Philippians to sac needs of self and look to others
Dr. Menzies..."let's be unscriptural"

Read Scriptural
This is the word of the Lord

Movie...Independence Day...Threat to country from without
Look around at reality...greatest threat is that which comes from within

Americans at their worst
have become bombers, vigilantes, gang members, burners of black churches, child abductions

at their best it seems that all many of us can do is to just run the race
the one with the most toys at the end winds
Is there no other reason to live?

Cathy's 15 year class reunion...American Legion Hall
stood outside, surveyed the night
quiet night in Olathe...moon shone, I-35, Sonic, Go-Chicken-Go
eyes dropped to the scene in front of me
on grounds of American Legion Post
flags of every branch of the service
155mm howitzer cannon used in Vietnam
In the center, the red, white and blue
Thought struck me...these gave their time, their youth, their lives
so that we could have all of this

It is a fact that those who do not work for what they get...appreciate it less
that the easy way to do things is rarely the right way to do things
that the line of least resistance rarely delivers long term satisfaction

Are we thinking of others in our daily living...or just living for ourselves
Disc of children...Folks we can't always do the fun stuff
someone must teach them boundaries
Money...why is it that so many of us don't want to make a living this year?
we want to make it this week

KKK rally...supporters got upset...broke thru fences
KKK man beaten...new cameras get there to find he is being sheltered by black women
Irony here
Women says...somewhere it has got to stop

It is time that we think again about sacrifice
It is time that we look to the time honored traditions that made America great
It is time that we look to the example of Jesus Christ
and remember that we are only free when our souls are free to love others
Self sacrifice central theme in Christian faith
Christian Self sacrifice made America great
Christian Self sacrifice will keep America great

Wednesday, August 5, 2009

Sacrifice Hebrews9:27-28 07-05-09

Sermon 7-5-09 Sacrifice bb Hebrews 9:27-28
27Just as man is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, 28so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many people; and he will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for him.

Is your life a bit droll? Boring? Mediocre? Consider the concept of sacrifice

Sacrifice- who has done what for you?
My parents sacrificed to raise me, to send me to college
People sacrificed to build this church
Abraham was willing to sacrifice Isaac – Gen 22
Stephen served the widows, shared his faith, gave his life – Acts 6, 7
Moses- gave up what he wanted to do to give his life for God’s purpose
every great story has an element of sacrifice- that is what makes them great!

Whatever you want in life,
you must give up something to get it.
The greater the value,
the greater the sacrifice required of you.
Everything has a price.
There's a price to pay if you want to make things better,
and a price to pay for just leaving things as they are.
Nothing worthwhile ever comes easily.

The scripture says that man is destined to die. The word sacrifice asks us What do you do between the dates- the dash?

Joseph C. Rosenbaum tells the story of…..Mother is always there when you need her. She helps, protects, listens, advises and nurtures physically and morally. She makes sure that her family is loved 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 52 weeks a year. At least that's how I remember my mother, for the few precious years I was blessed to have her. But no words can describe the sacrifice she made out of love for me, her young son.
I was 19 years old, and I was being taken to a concentration camp with a large group of other Jews. It was clear that we were destined to die. Suddenly my mother stepped in and traded places with me. And although it was more than 50 years ago, I will never forget her last words to me and her good-bye look.
"I have lived long enough. You have to survive because you are so young," she said.
Most kids are born only once. I was given birth twice - by the same mother. - sacrifice

What is your life about? How do you measure it?

Sacrifice is an all too missing element in today’s world- today’s church
Convenience and entitlement are concepts have taken its place
Mantra of so many today is still, I want what I want when I want it.

[Life] Ministry that costs nothing, accomplishes nothing.

I drove onto the beautiful 20 acre property, greeted by a pond, walking trails, flowers and trees. Bells chimes as I went into church and sat on the cushy pew.I sat in my normal spot. I watched as the sun came shining through the stained glass windows. The minister dressed in a shirt and tie opened the golden gilded Bible, marked it with a silk bookmark and said, "If any man will be my disciple, said Jesus, let him deny himself, take up his cross, sell what he has, give it to the poor, and follow me."=Soren Kierkagaard, [edited]

David went to sacrifice at the threshing floor of Arauna: "I will not offer burnt offerings to the Lord my God which cost me nothing" (2 Sam.24:24).

Sacrifice is not a decision for only today. Great people live sacrificial lives

The scripture indicates that His sac was one for all
But in the world of humans, sac must be repeated
Unfortunate nature of keeping things on the right track
Hardwork, and yes wars.
There is no war to end all wars

Sacrifice is Exemplified in those who have made our nation great.
Pilgrims ½ - Revolution 25K - Civil war 625K- Antietam Sept 17 1862, 23K
Ww1 116K - Ww2- 407K

Last June 6th was the 65th anniversary of d-day – 4,391 allied soldiers died

Arthur Seltzer story,
on June 6, 1944, Arthur Seltzer was 19 years old. He still calls June 6th "the longest day of my life."

he was attached to the 29th Infantry. As they approached Omaha Beach at dawn the men on Arthur's landing craft signed a dollar bill — 36 signatures, a signal of their bond, a lucky dollar in Arthur’s pocket. Minutes later they were in the water.

"We were in the 3rd and 4th wave going in," says Arthur, "and we were told not to go out the front of the ship but to go over the side of the ship so I had 60 pounds of equipment on my back, soldiers had their stuff and so over the sides we went. I can't swim. I wasn't worried about getting shot, I was worried about not drowning. When we finally got to the beach there was no craters for us to hide in and naturally machine guns up there were firing. "each soldier was thinking, where can I go to be saved, where can I hide, where can I be that I won't get hit."

Units were scattered all over the beach. later on that day he saw the sergeant whose idea it had been to sign the dollar bill, Out of the 36 to sign the bill "He says, 'You and I are the only two that survived from that landing craft,'

Arthur went on to fight in the Battle of the Bulge, and on April 29, 1945, Arthur, who is Jewish, was with the American troops who discovered the Dachau concentration camp.

Seeing the poor, starving people, everyone understood what the sacrifice was for.

Arthur says, "Every June 6 the first thing I do is put my flag out." I struggle with the memories. " you don't forget the friends you lost when you served over there you don't forget the people who gave their lives to make this country free."

transition to the video=-=-
in the movie saving private ryan, 8 soldiers are sent to locate pvt james ryan, the sole surviver of 4 brothers, 3 of whom died on d day. by the end of the movie, ryan is found and saved, but most of the original 8 have perished in the cause. The movie closes with the young ryan, becoming an old man, looking back on his life, he considers their sacrifice. Lets watch.

Video clip

We who are inspired by others must remember that they who went into battle with a cross in their pocket.
Our ultimate example of sacrifice is Jesus Christ.
His sacrifice not only teaches us – informs us, sets an example
but his sacrifice save us from our sins.
On the cross he did for us that which no one could do for themselves

Andrew Jackson: Quotes: Sacrifice
You must pay the price if you wish to secure the blessing
Jesus paid the price to secure a blessing for you and me.

In the Christian faith, There is no earning it. Salvation is a gift.
We kneel at the cross in thanks for the amazing gift
Jesus died –
Once for all
To bring salvation
He sets the example for us
He makes a way for us to salvation in this life and eternity in the next

What do you wish to accomplish in your life?

Thursday, March 26, 2009

You Are Worth Loving -- March 8, 2009-Romans 8:31-39

Romans 8:31-39
31What then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? 32Hw who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all-how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things? 33Who will bring any change against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies. 34Who is he that condems? Christ, Jesus, who died-more than than, who was raised to life-is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us. 35who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution of famine or nakedness or danger or sword? 36As it is written: "For your sake we have death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered. 37No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. 38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the furute, nor any powers 39niether height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Intro
Lent 40 days before Easter
40 days to think about a loving God
last week-life is a gift from God, it is worth loving
today-you. are worth loving

There is no greater feeling in the world, than to be loved
No greater rejestion than not to be loved
We have a sense of will bring when we feel loved
We are filled with discomfort and pain when we feel unloved

Yet we get stuck a little when we think of us being worth loving
We are not sure what that means...it sounds a little egotistical
We see some people are totally stuck on themselves
We have had humility masking as self desprciation pounded in to us

I am not suggesting that you get stuck on yourself
I am not suggesting today that you live a selfish life

What I am suggesting is that God says that you are worht loving
And the greates hinderance to that bedcoming a reality, is you

Lets look at some facts
You are the creation of God
God said it is good Genesis 1
31God saw all that hehad made and it was very good.

You are the crowning achievement of creation
That is why God sent a savior
God so loved the world, John 3:16

How many people would it take for God to send Jesus
1,000? 1 million? or 1?

You are worht Jesus suffering and dying for you
Did he only do that for other people, no, all of this, for you

As a Christian, there is ony one conclusion to come to
God loves you and you are worth loving.

Loving yourself, this is easier said than done
Who will condem us?
Someone makes a joke and we are hurt
Someone implies that we did something wrong and it all comes back
The little voice that says, you are a bad guy

At the core of who we are is us
We want God to be at the center, but we are wired, "us"

Christians are called to love God and love others in the same manner that we love ourselves-it is like there is a progressive chain
God neighbor self...seof neighbor God
8If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anone who ies not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love Godm whom he has not seen. 21And he has given us this command: Whoever loves God must also love his brother. 1John 4:20

Can we love others if we don't love ourselves? Do we know what love is if we don't see that we are worth loving?

Are you having trouble with this?
A am
There are too many voices that tell me that I am not woth loving

Where do these voices come from?
Many parents, are trying to get our attention when we are young
they don't mean to make a life imprint, but they do.
By what they say and how they say it.
Pay attention. For crying out load Jeff-shame on you
We hear it for so long during our formative years, then suddenly we are adults and it takes us years to undestand what it is. then we have to start trying to combat it.

The church can also leave a crushing imprint
A Gallup poll says 80% say they believe, 40% attend somewhat...
What about the 40%
the church was just trying to keep us on track, but it has crushed them

Some days 15 people may say they love me, i still ony hear the one voice in the back of my head. You are a bad person

what if I told you that there are charges brought against you. There's a child of God that you've treated poorly
Some one that Jesus loves, you have trashed
i invite you to see that person as Jesus sees them
Lovely, forgive, free
There is a follower of Christ that you have been down on. you have harped on them for years and you have let their parents harp on them. You have stood idly by while their soul was crushed and they became discouraged.

Who is the follower of Christ that you helped crush? Yourself....

If God is for you, who can be against you?
You can....
You can so more damamge to yourself.....

Two farmers were having a long bitter feud over a fince line. The quarrel became more and more vitriolic until finally, under cover of darkness, one farmer went to the other's well and dropped bags of salt into it to contaminate it. He thought he had really showe his opponent who was in charge until a few days later when he lifted water out of his own well and discovered it had a salty taste; both farmers wells shared a common underground water table.

You need to treat yourself with a little more honor
I want to honor God creation
That includes you and me

I wonder if we are gdoing better with our children...
I asked one ht eother day...what are the voices that they hear...

this is about power...who you give power to, what you listen to
We are listening to the wrong voices

When we listen to others, many of the voices say that we aren't worth loving
When we listed to God, he says it, nothing can separate you from his love

i used to hear this and think...mothing can separate us from the love of God excep ourselves
It's liek we are our own worst enemy

But I have come to realize tha tyour belief that you are not loved does not make you unloved
Just because we think that God doesn't love us, dosen't mean he doesn't
When we listen to the wrong voices, we con't change a thing. God still loves us

Ahh the thief on the corss. What was he thinging...
I am unworthy, what was god thinking? This ismy child, this is my son

You are valuable to God---how much does God love you?
this much....Jesus spread our his arms and died. For you.

In John 13 jesus was going to wash the disciples feet
John 13 - 8"No" said Peter, "you shall never wash my feet'> Jesus answered, "Unless I wash you, you have not part with me". 9"then Lord," Simon Peter replied, "not just my feet but my hands and my head as well!"

the love of God is held out to us from a cross and we give it to everyone but ourselves
Peter...you will never wash my feet...

If I don't wash your feet, you have no part of me.

The beginning of the story of salvation is not our sin, it is the love of God reaching, caring, wooing, wanting....you

Today Jesus is saying, O Love you. I care for you, I gave myself for you, receive my sacrifice...my body, my blood, broken for you.

38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, not any poers, 39neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.