Showing posts with label Mothers Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mothers Day. Show all posts

Monday, May 13, 2013

The Call Part 1 Matthew 4:18-22 5-12-2103



Sermon 5-12-13  the call, pt 1  Matthew 4:18-22 
18 As Jesus was walking beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw two brothers, Simon called Peter and his brother Andrew. They were casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. 19 “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will send you out to fish for people.” 20 At once they left their nets and followed him. 21 Going on from there, he saw two other brothers, James son of Zebedee and his brother John. They were in a boat with their father Zebedee, preparing their nets. Jesus called them, 22 and immediately they left the boat and their father and followed him.

Its mother’s day.  We celebrate you. 
Also understand that it can be a difficult day for many
          Not a mother, lost a child, difficulty with mother
But we celebrate today as we are able
Good fit for today because there is a calling involved. 
A decision to change your life for a purpose.

From the beginning of time, humans have asked, “What is life?  What’s the point?  What am I supposed to be do?” 
as Rick Warren states it, “What On Earth Am I Here For?”

The response is the easiest and the hardest thing for us to do:
Matthew 22:37-39
37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’[a] 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’[b]

Today we begin talking about this calling. It is not an easy conversation.

Our “Call” is our unique way of loving God and loving others.
And scripture is full of great call stories.  Men and women whose lives were interrupted by this great command to love God and love others.
Why so many call stories in scripture?

Because All are called
God’s initiative – God starts it
          God doesn’t need us, but chooses to work with and through us
         Body of Christ- we are
         Gifts of the Spirit- we have

Essentially, choosing to be a Christian is accepting a call
To lay down your nets
To take up your cross
                                          
 It is done by God’s grace
         God doesn’t wait for or demand perfection,
but accepts our brokenness and
gives us          what we need for the moment (daily bread);
He uses broken cisterns
Wounded healers

Paul was a murderer.  Noah a drunk.  Abraham a liar.David an adulterer

Yes, They weren’t good enough
1 Samuel 3 – Samuel and eli did not have a clue that it was his voice.
Samuel didn’t know God, or his word. He didn’t grow up with it, and he certainly was not ‘churched. Many are tempted to ignore my call for those exact reasons

The same circumstances were true of Jesus asking the disciples to follow him…they were in a trade and old enough that they’d never passed a rabbi’s ‘tests’ to follow a rabbi, yet Jesus says, come on guys, let’s go. Follow me, I don’t care…and look what they did!

 God works with the willing.
(bumper sticker:  God doesn’t call the equipped, He equips the called.”)

Peter was an unlikely first round draft choice
                                Explore fishermen and their role in society            
                                              
God’s invites us to go
                     Go…I’ll show you Abraham, (Genesis 12:1)
                     I know the plans I have for you (Jer 29:11)
                  Come follow me (Matthew 4:18-22)

We Have a choice = stay or go
          Doesn’t force
             Doesn’t demand
               Peter (and others) gets to choose
           We too are invited.

Saying “yes” = Leaving our nets
          Doesn’t necessarily mean go to Africa 
Means leaving Our comfort, our familiarity, our pleasure
Our business, our excuses.  
          The commitments that we made before we were thinking of God
Even good pursuits that prevent us from being free to follow 
jobs.  Vacations.  Hobbies.  Activities.  Over- scheduled lives

In past discussions about calling we have spoken of purpose
Purpose – love the lord your god with all your heart……..

If there is a deeper Call
Usually think that we are called to something but first we must be
Called out from away from something
·        Saul quit his job
·        David gave up sheep
·        Samuel went to live in the temple
·        Mary gave up her dreams for her life
·        Israelites left egypt
·        Peter left his nets

The process of call and leaving your nets Begins with a conversation
Its a really  painful conversation.
Do we even want to have the discussion

Like to protect you from it- but you are adults,
lets have an adult conversation
Do you think most Christians are open to this discussion?
Wouldn’t we prefer to dabble in Christianity?

What happens when  we are called to something, but not away from something
When we don’t leave ourselves to enjoin a new thing
·        The married couple whose lives are still about them
·        The mother who will not devote herself to child
·        The minister who thinks its still about him
·        The church that gets stuck in the pew
·        Or the Christian who gives God his bit and moves on

I cant count the number of people that I know that tell me about a call that they had when they were 22 or 25, and they let it go, but it never let them go……..

To find your call, you must be willing to leave life as you know it
In one form or another to find your purpose

There is a story that I like to tell -the little pony grows up

Once upon a time a pony played in the pasture with his friends.  He laughed and hopped and galloped around.  He ate and drank whenever he wanted to.  He took naps whenever he wanted to.  He just pretty much did whatever he pleased.  Ahh, the life of a pony!

As the pony grew up, he began to notice that all of the adult horses left the pasture in the morning and were hitched up to wagons.  They were gone all day, and always came back home tired.  The pony wondered what that was all about.

One day, the farmer came for the pony.  He put a rope around his neck and led him to a corral.  There, the farmer forced a metal bit into the pony’s mouth and began to teach him the ways of the big horses.  The pony would learn later that this process was called “breaking.”  It was aptly named because the experience was not very pleasant for the pony.

But the Farmer knew that the pony had a purpose that God had created him for.  Difficult as the breaking process was, the farmer stayed with it, because he loved the pony and wanted him to find the joy in life.  Soon, the pony was a young horse.  He was leaving the pasture every morning, pulling wagons to town and plows through the field.  On his way through the farm he would often look back at the young ponies playing in the pasture.  He would smile - he knew what was in store for them. 

If we are going to find our purpose, we must leave the pasture and be under the submission of the master.

The breaking is no fun, but it sets the stage for what is to come

So many pictures of this in scripture …
Luke 9 57 As they were walking along the road,(BJ) a man said to him, “I will follow you wherever you go.”58 Jesus replied, “Foxes have dens and birds have nests, but the Son of Man(BK) has no place to lay his head.”59 He said to another man, “Follow me.”(BL)
But he replied, “Lord, first let me go and bury my father.”60 Jesus said to him, “Let the dead bury their own dead, but you go and proclaim the kingdom of God.”(BM)61 Still another said, “I will follow you, Lord; but first let me go back and say goodbye to my family.”(BN)62 Jesus replied, “No one who puts a hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God.”

Mark 10 28 Then Peter spoke up, “We have left everything to follow you!”(Z)29 “Truly I tell you,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel 30 will fail to receive a hundred times as much(AA) in this present age: homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields—along with persecutions—and in the age to come(AB) eternal life.

Matthew 10
37 “Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.(AO) 38 Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me.(AP) 39 Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it.(AQ)

What have we let go of for the sake of Christ?
What have we left to follow him?

Cheap grace, often thought of as being forgiven but acting however you want to.
[Accept forgiveness but still plays cards or ______]
What if cheap grace is accepting the story, but not sacrificing to be a part of it.

Examples of ways that some have left their nets
People that rearranged their lives to take a different job
People that spend nights and weekends working on projects for children
Food prepared for the homeless
Stephen ministers giving their time
Examples around our church all the time

Leaving our nets is not just a sacrifice.  There is also joy
                Escape from boredom
                Escape from mediocrity
                Escape from self
                Escape from all that separates us from God
The journey begins with a discussion
Jesus starts……lay down your nets and follow me.
What will our response be?
Next week the discussion continues

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Mother's Day Proverbs 6:20-23 05/09/10

Mother's Day Proverbs 6:20-23 05/09/10

20My son, keep your father's commands and do not forsake your mother's teaching.
21bind them upon your heart forever; fasten them around your neck.
22When you walk, they will guide you; when you sleep, the will watch over you; when you awake, they will speak to you. 23For these commands are a lamp, this teaching is a light, and the corrections of disciple are the way to life.

The teaching of a parent
What do they teach us?


My mother joined my father to teach us how to work
It is a vital like skill -
Not unemployed, but the sense of entitlement that so many have
Learning to work is a very important life skill

Story of work in the back yard in San Jose when I went off with my sweetheart,

Akin to this is to - Take responsibility
Man up
Put on your big boy clothes

2 Thessalonians 3 10For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: "If a man will not work, he shall not eat."

11We hear some among you are idle. they are not busy; they are busybodies. 12Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the bread they eat. 13And as for you, brothers, never tire of doing what is right.

My mother joined my father in teaching me needed social skills.
Do not talk with your mouth full.
Do not throw your clothes of the floor.
Put your dishes in the dishwasher
Open the door for a lady.

One of the greatest skills is to love others
How to treat others

Your family is your family
You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your relatives
Many siblings hurt each other for silly reasons
this person will always be your brother/sister
Never leave your wing man

Love one another
If we love those who live in out own house, do we have a witness for Christ outside of our house?

By nature we are selfish
Open your heart to a paradigm of love

John 3 34"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. 35By this all men will know that your are my disciples, if you love one another."

My mother joined my father in teaching me to attend church

I was baptized at 8 days
Church and Sunday school
Attendance pins/praying hands

Story of 3rd grade Jeff who wanted to skip church
I think regular church attendance plants the seeds of many things needed later in life.
I can promise you that when your kids are 22, 25 and 30 what they learn in church will be much more important to them than what they learn doing all of the other things that they learn other places.
When they face relationship breakup, financial stress and trouble at work, that foundation of faith is very important for them to be able to fall back on.

Hebrew10 24And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. 25Let us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us encourage one another p and all the more as you see the Day approach.

Remember who you are
Do the right thing - the right thing to do is the right thing to do even if you are the only one doing it.

Galatians 6
7Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. 8the one who sows to please his sinful nature, from that nature will reap destruction; the one who sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. 9Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

Everything is ok, don't worry
Relax, take it easy.
Some people are all balled up with worry and stress
Short term vs long term memory
Learn to see the good - Learn to celebrate life
Isn't it a shame that some people see this as a novel thought
Matthew 6 27Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life?

At the end of the day, learn to celebrate like.
It is the gift of God.

Ecclesiastes 3 12I know that there is nothing better for men than to be happy and do good while they live. 13That everyone may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all his toil - this is the gift of God.

On Mothers Day, let me say a few words about adoption...
Katie our cousin
Video

You are loved unconditionally
Note this week from someone who thought they had committed the unpardonable sin.

The women who sent her adopted son back to Russia.

King David...all that, yet a man after God's heart
Peter and the three denials. Yet he is forgiven and reinstated.

There is nothing that you can do to make God love you more, nothing that you can do that will make him love you less.
God so loved the world.

Romans 8 15For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship [adoption]. And by him we cry, "Abba, Father." 16The spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children.

The teaching of godly parents is a lamp, a light, and the way of life.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Mother's Day 2 Timothy 1:1-8 5-11-97

Mother's Day 2 Timothy 1:1-8

Little things that my mom did:

1. (by age 5) She taught me simple skills of life...to get dressed...she taught me to tie my shoes. The shoes that are tied may kick field goals someday, they may tie skates of a hockey player. They send us on our way as we leave the house to live our day...either poorly or honorably.

2. (by age 10) Learning social skills. She taught me to skip for the Maypole celebration. Social skills that you may need to make a friend. Social skills that you may need to make a business contact. Social skills that are necessary for self-esteem.

3. (by age 14) She taught me to get up when you get knocked down. Left field, missed balls, fell down. Taking responsibility for your actions. If at first you don't succeed, try again. Never spend too much time feeling sorry for yourself. Get up and do what needs to be done.

4. (by age 17) She taught me, and saw to it, that I learned the Gospel. 26 contacts before one comes to a decision for Christ. They are all important -- Sunday school, prayer at meals, choir, etc. In a world when we are very interested in our children playing sports, how many will have the opportunity to live the life of professional athletes? And how many of those same young people will have the opportunity to live the Christian life?

Paul wrote to Timothy.......................(read the Scripture deliberately)

5. All of us have been given the foundations of faith. All of us will have opportunities to show forth the power of God. They may have started as little things, but now it is time to stir up the gifts within us. Our mothers have planted many seeds. It's our job to be sure that they grow to maturity.

We thank you and honor you for what you have given us. Now we have others coming at this time who will testify to the goodness of their mother's gifts.