Showing posts with label Life Changes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life Changes. Show all posts

Monday, June 30, 2014

Neglected Virtues: Flexibility, Going Where God Wants, 6/29/14

Sermon 6-29-14  neglected virtues- flexibility Jonah 2:10 -3:5=-

Neglected virtues.  A new series.
Like this old car, forgotten in the pasture.
Something to find, rediscover and restore.
Today the familiar story of Jonah

10 And the Lord commanded the fish, and it vomited Jonah onto dry land.Then the word of the Lord came to Jonah a second time: “Go to the great city of Nineveh and proclaim to it the message I give you.” 3:1Jonah obeyed the word of the Lord and went to Nineveh. Now Nineveh was a very large city; it took three days to go through it. Jonah began by going a day’s journey into the city, proclaiming, “Forty more days and Nineveh will be overthrown.” The Ninevites believed God. A fast was proclaimed, and all of them, from the greatest to the least, put on sackcloth.

Today’s virtue is Flexibility – flexibility -right……….
It means, Dealing w change
Do you like change?
let’s be honest, some of us were never flexible to begin with.
Maybe we should call it the undiscovered virtue

Sometimes I think about what we have dealt with at WCC
New ministers came and went - Add a service
Change service times - Add a contemporary service
Sell our building - Take the old stained glass windows out
Move to the hospital - Set up church every week and tear it down
Church in the gym - Church in the sanctuary
Finish the balcony - Buy five more acres
Go to 4 services - Build the youth and mission building
Build the connecting wing - Add the branch service as a simulcast
Attempted New church start -Build the worship center
Buy the missions center -Open a branch in Raytown

Life is crazy for us – and for Jonah.  you must be flexible to survive
Jonah- ahh what a week.

At home watching tv
The world cup is on
God speaks and his life is disquieted
On a boat - In a storm- in the water- swimming for his life- in a whale’s belly- on the beach
That’s one trip to the beach that no one would enjoy.
In a belly, on the beach- suddenly a preacher- resting- pouting
At home watching tv
Friends do you want God to be at the center of your life, leading you?
If you do then be ready to be disquieted.  Get ready to become flexible

The biblical characters are so human.  I hope you see this and love this.
The psalmist is up and down. - Job is struggling.
Thomas is a doubter. - Peter doesn’t get it.
Jonah is a mess - The Israelites want to go back to Egypt.

A great question of spiritual merit for us to consider is this
What is God doing in this world and how can we stop trying to fight it?
What is God doing in this world and how can we stop trying to control it?
We want things to remain the same
How can we become more comfortable with it
Go with the flow
There is a relationship between worry and trust.  Fear and trust
You never depend on god until you stop trying to be in charge

And here is my problem with the story of jonah.
Not that the fish couldn’t swallow him
But that he was so stubborn that it took him three days to repent
You can never follow God until you stop trying to be in charge.

Whether it is Jonah, or us, there is the pattern of movement in our lives
From start to the middle to the end
Egypt.  The wilderness.  The promised land
Sometimes we feel like we are forever in the middle

Wm bridges – managing transitions identified things that people need to understand in regards to changing times
1.    Those who are bothered most by change are those who are most affected
2.   To deal effectively with change, a person needs to understand that the tools of yesterday will not help them understand today

The young people of today are not going to be won to the church by the ideas that I had when I was young. 
The church near st Louis.  David hyatt.  Wont change worship styles

3.   Where there is a painful, troubled time – an invitation to become a different kind of person is taking place. God is trying to teach you something

Questions for you to consider as a spiritual person
Are you  more Stubborn or accepting
Can I see it if I am wrong?
How hard is it for you to see god at work in a thing
Joseph - You meant it for evil, but God meant it for good
Change is hard for churches
Consider the folks at Raytown…what they have had to endure

we can forget that Churches have wilderness times. Times  of struggle
we can forget what we are about-
can act as if we never knew what we were about….
Harrisonville…….The church that didn’t want to grow
The church that preferred the pastor visit them in the hospital than new
people who were visiting.
Forgotten what we were about
are we on or Off mission.
“Spiritually developed people are those who have set aside their personal preference and comfort for the sake of the mission”

Wilderness isn’t always lost, sometimes its more like the time in-between
This is good time…..
In-between the last season of growth and change.
Praying, looking to what is next.
Time to clarify the vision
It happens a lot
In-between jobs, in between stages of life
where your kids are at
In between where you are and where you want to be

The wilderness is a time of natural worry and concern
Yet, good leaders help people be ok, even in the wilderness.

Being in the wilderness can also feel like being lost
there is fear when the water is troubled
If you are feeling lost. If you are struggling

This is a normal part of life
Not our favorite part, but a normal part.

Three things that help us in the wilderness of change
1. God wants us to Listen- circumstances will get your attention – let them!

2. God wants us Learn- once they have your attention, learn the character for success
the ways of the past may not take us where we need to be for today
learn the lessons that are needed for today

3. God wants us to Trust- we usually trust God the best when we can no longer make it on our own.
how flexible are you?  How trusting?
Very well, very well story.
Virgin Mary – angel Gabriel - May it be unto me as you have said
Jesus in the garden……Not my will but thine be done

If you are alive, things are changing. 
There is only one way to get things to stop changing, and that is for a person or an organization to die.

Successful Christ followers will deal proactively with change, difficulty and chaos,
And will see these things as a sign that god is with them working with them.
Taking them into his purpose

You may not hear God’s voice, you may not see the pillar of cloud by day.
You may not see the fire by night.
But God is still there. The bush of Moses is still burning.
The key to dealing with change is trusting in God
Trust in God. He will provide. He is with us. Always.
Let us pray.


Monday, May 19, 2014

New Beginnings: Life-Changing Encounters, Acts 9:1-9, 05/18/14

new beginnings res appearances of Jesus
Paul on the road to Damascus

New beginnings. 
This is a new beginning for paul, and for the Christian movement
The little jewish sect reaches into the then known world

The amazing nature of saul's conversion.
Romans worshiped roman gods
Local deities were allowed
Jews could worship the jewish God
Romans were smart enough to know that people wanted their own Gods
So along comes this jesus way….
Remember david Koresh?
Most jews would have seen jesus as some cult teacher from a little town
Not a surprise that the authorities went after him

One of the greatest proofs of resurrection is changed lives
Sauls conversion is one of the greatest proofs of the resurrection
Everywhere he went people wanted to see the guy who once killed Xians

On becoming a believer
He works his theology backwards from his own experience
We tend to do the same.
I saw jesus on the road.  He must be alive
The resurrection is true
His death must not have been bad news for his movement, but good
So his death must have meaning
He taught that one must die for the sins of…….
Therefore Jesus died for us
Those who put their trust in him find new life

Many of us do this as well
We work back from our experience
It happened to me like this so it must happen for everyone in this way

This story messes with me.
I believe in free will
Does not appear that Paul had it in this story
Thankfully it appears that Annanias does have some choice
He has been around for a while, has a relationship with God
Can think about what is going on and debate the spirit

The story of these two men bring up some interesting theological questions
Does God cause things
Or do we get choices

The reformation gave birth to many new ways of understanding Gods work

Calvinism
John Calvin 1509-1564
1.   Total depravity – complete inability to save ones self from sin
2.   Unconditional election – god chooses some to heaven some to hell
3.   Limited atonement – only works for the chosen- not available to all
4.   Grace is irresistible – if you are chosen you can’t resist.  You have no choice
5.   Once saved, always saved

I love giving people grief who say that God did this or God did that
All the time
So , you are a Calvinist?
We can say it so much that we sound like we don’t believe in free will

I believe god does things, but not every time.
There must be room in our thinking for free will
We must take responsibility for our life and our choices

Armininism
Jacob Arminius1560-1609
1.   Total depravity – complete inability to save one’s self from sin
2.   Conditional election – those who have faith are chosen
3.   Unlimited atonement- all can be saved
4.   Grace is resistible- you have freewill
5.   Salvation can be lost

What was once clearly divided into theological camps
Is not all mixed up in our brains
Like Reece’s peanut butter cups
People engage in cafeteria theology, taking what they want and leaving other parts.
Remember. If you choose to believe free will, god cant be responsible for everything. Your choices matter
And I think God likes that

Varieties of religious experience
Peter- nurture
Paul- radical encounter
Both still exist
People today insist you have it a certain way
There is no formula
God does not operate on formulas
Some people try to formulate the holy spirit
The spirit is uncontainable- he moves like the wind-john 3

Jn 3:1-8 Now there was a Pharisee, a man named Nicodemus who was a member of the Jewish ruling council. He came to Jesus at night and said, “Rabbi, we know that you are a teacher who has come from God. For no one could perform the signs you are doing if God were not with him.” Jesus replied, “Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.[a] “How can someone be born when they are old?” Nicodemus asked. “Surely they cannot enter a second time into their mother’s womb to be born!” Jesus answered, “Very truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit[b] gives birth to spirit. You should not be surprised at my saying, ‘You[c] must be born again.’ The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.”[d]

Picture of sailboat
 
Stop trying to figure it out and just open your sails to the wind
Sf bay and the world cup racing
How to start and stop a sail boat

Remember your faith stories
Respect the journeys of others
Keep seeking the god who radically changes people’s lives

The power of god to reach you
The power of you to choose